Can A Person Change?

Most of the time we  have a desire to change another person’s life, parents like to have a good child that behaves well and do what is pleasing. Some people have gone so far to change their personality traits looking for means and ways but for the most part it has been  a successful failure.

What is a Change?

A change is the shift from one direction or behavior to another, however there are many types and levels of changes, here we will talk more about the changes within a person.

Self Image

According to psychology they believe that there is existence of Self-Image, when a child is born they born with no self-concept but as they grow through experiences they develop a self image which is a perception on who they should be rather than what they can be. Plastic Surgeon Dr. Maxwell Maltz, the author of Psycho cybernetics, did his work for over a century and realized after the surgery some of his patients were happy about their new looks and some were still having ‘emotional scars’ and could not tell the difference, and that’s when he did a well research on ‘Self Image’ that lead him to discover that if you know the way to communicate with your self image then everything will change and you will develop a success mechanism.

Who is a Person?

The key is to understand what a person is before we know how we can change them, an individual is defined by what they are becoming as the result of what they have been doing for a certain period of time. However there is more into the pot that meets the eye, a person can be acting in a certain way as a result of their genetics that they embody in this level there can be a purely physical disorder, or as a result of their early childhood mental programming this includes emotional as well, or as the result of their spiritual nature, in spirit it refers to the fact that what makes a person, a human is spiritual in nature, a spirit can be defined in many ways but it melts down to the content that is unbreakable or movable by material  or mental forces, you can manipulate a person by their physical needs, or by logical explanations but it is their own will to truly accept what you are presenting to them, for example a person has the ability to chose to do something regardless of physical circumstances either environmental or disability, there have been many cases of people in severe pain but have done incomprehensible deeds people like Sean Stephenson and  Nick Vujicic have demonstrate the power that is beyond the physical.
Below is a video of Nick Vujicic:

How To Change Personality.

The answer is pretty simple, if a person has a desire to change, then definitely, but if they don’t will to change then all that you do is not going to work, changing a person is a personal business and it should only be based on individual choice and not some convincing  art. And most of the things that people don’t understand is that people are where they are or who they have become for a reason, unless they decide to change, the change will never happen. Some few steps to decide how to change;

• First decide clearly what is it that you really want to change, “A proper diagnose is half the cure” you can sit down either by simply writing down  or talk with someone close who knows you better and discuss about the good qualities that you would like to attain.
• The Second thing should be how to change those traits, and unwanted behavior, there are many techniques, such as;
  • Hypnosis, which you can go to hypnotherapy, or simply find a home study course( depends on your wallet)
  • EFT this is emotional freedom technique which involves the energy work that breaks the patterns of bad habits
  • Read a book, there are many books on self development, such as You can heal your life by louse Hay, Psycho-Cybernetics
  • Get involved in a community of people who have the same like minded, it is easy if there are more than one person who wants to change for better because you can always encourage each other, and this you can use each others experiences and knowledge, say like if someone has read the book you can heal you life, instead of reading the book again you can just use one’s knowledge to make things work faster, or if one is a hypnotherapy they can do it for free or for a fair trade rather than spending too much money on hypnotherapy.
• The last step is paying the price, we pay the price by putting out plans and goals to action, most of people end up planning, and never take any action, taking action is the most important step even though preparation matters  but it all comes down into taking action and evaluate your results.

References:

the tapping solution
	(www.livingatcause.com) and Nick Vujicic (www.lifewithoutlimbs.org)	www.hypnotranquility.com