Be ‘equally yoked’.

Many people search endlessly for their true soulmate.  Many find failure time and time again.  By following certain guidelines, the task may be more successful.  Being ‘equally yoked’ is the main important factor.  A ‘yoke’ is what is used to bind 2 animals together when they do work, so that they go in the same direction- (it’s a  crosspiece adjoining and enclosing the heads of each animal for focus).  Yoke also means to join, couple, link, or unite.  Two people need to be going in the same direction, to have the same agenda- for their union to truly work.  Their efforts need to be in harmony so that their work can have the fullest success and be fruitful.  This can apply to all areas of life- ideas about children, spirituality, expressing love, etc.  Smaller issues can be compromised on, but the larger issues must be in sync.  Writing down 3 top “Zeniths” is a useful tool.  These would be 3 things that are naturally and freely agreed upon-  that are extremely important to each person.   Letting your ‘Higher Self’ bring this person to you is another important step.  No one is 100%  ‘psychic’, but your Higher Self is.  By ‘asking’ your Higher Self in a very unattached manner, your true ‘twin’ or perfect mate will come to you.  Instead of picking a particular person, and ‘willing’ them to be the ‘one’- let it go and let ‘God’ synchronistically allow the two of you to come together.  Trusting your Higher Self/’God’- is also very important.   You may ‘feel right’ about someone, but the relationship may not work out in the long run.  It may be right for a short period of time, but if your ‘souls’ are not truly in sync., it will fall apart at some point.  To attain the everlasting ‘true relationship’- the task must be given over to the ‘All- Knowing Higher Self’.  You can ask for details that will verify that they are right-  for example:

  1. having strong, content  feelings for each other
  2. meeting each other’s t0p 3 ‘Zeniths’
  3. having positive dreams/synchronicities about each other- and anything else that may be important in determining that this person is truly your ‘answered prayer/intent’.   Knowing that this will be brought to you and/or manifested by you will ensure it’s outcome.  Feeling the excitement that they already are here adds to the quickness of it’s culmination.  Success will be the guaranteed outcome.  When something is ‘true’, nothing can put it asunder.
  • http://www.sourceoforigin.com Hubert

    Thanks Judy for such nice wisdom, my question is how will you know it is working out? while you are waiting!!

    • Judy

      You can ‘know’ by ‘praying’/meditating every single day- consistently asking for this situation to be brought to you. You will find that at least one synchronistic thing will happen daily, or you will get thoughts and ideas relating to the situation. By staying unattached, feeling optimistic that it is here for you, and following all actions that come to you to take- it will unfold steadily. Things can change drastically, and the outcome can be totally opposite than what you expected. By retaining your trust in your Higher Self, you can embrace any change and know that the perfect outcome will happen. Nurturing your desire daily will increase the speed to create this situation.

      • http://www.sourceoforigin.com Hubert

        Thanks Judy!, as the matter of fact i have been experiencing this and it has come into my attention that i am the one getting on the way all the time by trying to speed up or having some doubt, but i just have to learn how to let it happen and act when it is the right time!!